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So many readers shared great ideas for Mother’s Day gifts that I wanted to make sure everyone saw them.
Sue has a surprise planned:
Since my daughter is also a Mom, I like to do something for her, as well. I’m a little arthritic and can’t bend down the way I used to, so I asked my gardener to go to her house and replant the pots she has lining her front walk. The existing ones are in bad shape. It will be a surprise.
2babies1momma suggests an unusual custom gift:
Every year we make a calendar for my MIL with pictures in the day for everyone’s bday, any photo site makes them. Or last year we made coasters for my mom and they were a huge hit! Photoworks has a cutting board you can customize with photo’s, I have one and it is awesome!
Terri says no food!
As a mother I can highly recommend a ’special outing’. I have ’stuff’. What I truly enjoy is a day doing something that my son(s) and I both enjoy doing together. A trip to the city, museum hopping…just a day out together! It’s the best… and it doesn’t have to be on Mother’s Day (one of the worst days for doing things!) On Mother’s Day, just a card inviting me on an outing, (and no cooking!)
Nancy looks forward to many simple pleasures:
My favorite MD is when my kids let me sleep in and then they bring me breakfast in bed with homemade cards and tickets of “things they will do for me”. We all lay in bed and read them togeter, it is time just for them and me! Those are the best gifts I ever get. And at night my husband will cook!
Best day ever! ps my kids are 16, 14 and 7.
Debra suggested:
I think a letter detailing how much she means to you, put in a frame with a favorite photo, would be lovely and meaningful. Or along the same lines, frame a photograph of a special moment with the two of you with a note about how you treasured that day together. Re-create that moment/day if possible and affordable.
Ellie has lots of ideas but says the right gift depends on your Mom:
Having been on both the giving and receiving end of Mothers’ Day gifts, I’ve found that what matters most is that Mom is remembered in a personal way. A heart-felt card with a personal message (handmade cards when my boys were kids) tops the list. Meeting Mom’s needs with things she wants done but can’t do herself are right up there. A special treat to a meal away from home, whether at a restaurant or at your house, is always appreciated. Store-bought items that don’t mean anything personal… not so much. And most important: no more clutter of “stuff.” You know your mom… do whatever makes her the happiest!
What do you think makes a good Mother’s Day gift?
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I’ve been feeling generous towards a low-income friend lately. Not that he needs any help, but I am able to give it. I’m not interested in giving this friend a loan, but I’m considering subsidizing various activities with him, like picking up the lunch tab or treating him to a movie.
The prospect of giving gifts to a friend outside of Christmas, birthdays, and special occasions makes me nervous. Is this even appropriate? Will I hurt his pride? I called etiquette expert Nancy Mitchell for tips. Here’s what she advised.
What are the rules when it comes to giving gifts to friends?
I think the number one rule is to know the friend and know how to proceed. Would the person be wiling to accept things or is the person extremely proud and you’ll have to use subterfuge?
Let’s start with the person who may be very proud and not be willing to take what they think is charity. You can call them up and say, I got a gift certificate to a restaurant or theater. I would love to have you come with me, are you available? They might not have to know you went out and bought the gift certificate yourself.
Or say, Someone gave me two tickets to the hockey game. Would you like to go? If you had a friend who had children, give child care once and a while. I’d love to babysit sometime. Can I babysit and give you an evening out? Or say ‘I’ve got too much of a certain product. Pass things on, share some of the wealth. Offer to share frequent flyer miles.
Is it ethical to give gifts like this to friends who, if they knew the whole story, would say no?
I think it is because you don’t have an ulterior motive. You are giving from your heart and you are showing great sensitivity to someone’s situation. It’s not going to hurt anyone, it’s going to help.
What are the no-nos of giving?
You would never let anyone in on the secret. It’s between you and whoever is the recipient. Because if the cat got out of the bag there could be some hard feelings.
What about if your friend is open to receiving gifts? (more…)
How many unwanted presents did you get this Christmas or Hanukkah? I got a pair of jeans that don’t fit and a sweater that isn’t quite warm enough for my needs. I plan to exchange both.
Most people don’t do anything! Three in five consumers hold onto gifts they don’t want, according to a survey from Kijiji.com, a free online classifieds site. The top reasons are:
- they don’t want to hurt the feelings of the giver (60 percent)
- they think they will eventually use the gift (51 percent)
- it’s too much effort to return them to the store (33 percent)
If you can get past these hesitations, here are five things to do with unwanted, ill-fitting holiday presents.
Use an unwanted gift card to buy a gift for someone else. Think ahead to any birthdays, parties, or celebrations coming up in the next six months. Anybody retiring? Getting married? Having a baby?
Re-gift! Sometimes you’ll come across an appropriate recipient a few days later at another holiday function, but more likely you’ll stash an unwanted gift in your gift closet (a designated area at home for evergreen gifts). Make sure you remove anything that would indicate the item was re-gifted and do not mention you are re-gifting to the recipient, which is extremely rude. Some people feel re-gifting is tacky, but I say it’s better to re-gift than let a present go to waste!
Sell gift cards you’re not going to use, especially if you think the store has a chance of closing. Here is the low-down on the best sites to sell gift cards.
Exchange the gifts for something you want. If you don’t have a receipt, head to the store ASAP. Without a receipt, you’ll only get credit for the current selling price. Macy’s is one of the few stores that embeds the sale price in a bar code sticker so you can get credit for exactly what the giver paid. A lot of retailers softened their return policies to make it easier on us consumers and some are giving as much as a month after the holiday to return and/or exchange.
Sell presents online. Craigslist, Kijiji, eBay, Amazon. The Internet is your oyster.
What was the worst gift you received this Christmas?
1. A magazine subscription. Amazon has a bunch for $5 for a year
2. A gift certificate to the recipients favorite restaurant (if you are not local have the eatery put it in the mail and explain what is coming in a card)
3. A CD or book. Borders has a 30 percent off coupon good through Dec. 24. If you are looking for holiday music, check out Duke Ellington’s Three Suites for a swinging version of The Nutcracker.
4. Framed children’s art.
5. A family object from past generations. Last year my Aunt Mary gave me a beautiful quilt made by my great-grandmother. It was the most touching gift I received.
6. A stainless steel mug filled with candy, a letter, or another treat. Walgreens has a set of three mugs for just $10!
7. Tickets to a concert, ballet, opera, or show. You can let the recipient chose from a variety of performances.
8. If you want a gadget, consider a Flip Camera or GPS. If money is not an issue, pick up a netbook or iPhone.
9. A neat homemade gift is Que Bella Body Scrub, above. Five ingredients. Two hours. $40 bucks. More than a dozen gifts.
10. What’s your best last minute Christmas gift idea?
My frugal friend Donna Freedman, who blogs for MSN’s Smart Spending, talked to a handful of shopping mavens (includings yours truly) and wrote up a post about how to make the most of post-holiday sales.
“Two excellent reasons to hit the after-Christmas sales,” Donna writes. “You can find some screamin’ deals. You got gift cards or money for Christmas, so you can afford to shop!”
A few of her tips:
Keep reading for more post-holiday shopping tips.
I was wrapping up my holiday shopping at Walgreens yesterday morning when I noticed one man aimlessly wandering the Christmas aisle, hoping a present would jump out at him.
Yeah, I sympathized in my head, there’s not much selection. Or was there? I took a closer look and was shocked to find some really neat gifts.
A set of three stainless steel water bottles, above, was $10 – for all three of them!!! Usually these things go for $15 each. I’m kicking myself for not grabbing a set, which I could use as gifts in the next few months.
Large boxes of Thin Mints were 2/$2 – quite a steal of an office gift or stocking stuffer.
ChiaPets, which I have always coveted (perhaps because I have never owned one) were $16. I could see giving a ChiaPet to a co-worker (neat cube decoration), a grandparent (garden indoors!), or a young kid interested in how things grow.
For wordy/nerdy friends, the game Bananagrams is $15. If you’ve never played it before, it’s like scrabble but you can re-arrange the tiles to make new words.
Gift bags were $.25 each and santa hats were $2 each. Plus, a decent selection of toys were $7 each or three for $14. Bingo!
Where else do you recommend last minute gift shopping? Is there any one store that really has it all?
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Are you among the 30 percent of holiday shoppers who are putting off your holiday shopping until the last minute, which happens to be this weekend? I got a jump start on my shopping last night and wanted to share a few things that worked for me.
1. Make a list ahead of time. You’ll either blank out or be overwhelmed by the massive selection without one. Need gift ideas? Check out my gift guide.
2. Plan a route that involves as little driving and re-parking as possible. Mall. Traffic. Is. Slow.
3. Eat first and bring a bottle of water. I like to pack a snack too, like string cheese, an apple, or trail mix. Don’t waste precious energy and patience waiting in line for food!
4. Wear walking shoes.
5. Stay on track by NOT shopping with a friend. Who needs another distraction?
6. Park at the empty corner of the mall (if there is one). Once you get inside, it doesn’t make much of a difference where you parked.
7. Save receipts in one spot to decrease the chances of misplacing one.
8. Always ask what the return policy is.
9. Ask for a discount if the item is damaged in any way, if you can pay in cash for a pricey item, if you are buying a number of items, or if there are other mitigating circumstances. Brush up on your haggling skills.
How do you prepare for last minute holiday shopping?
Here’s a homemade Christmas gift that you can make for more than a dozen people in less then two hours, including the time it takes to go to the store and get the ingredients. It’s also a low-budget present that you can personalize with a card, letter, cookies, a framed photo, gift basket, or spa kit. There are lots of options!
Que Bella Body Scrub
The sugar and salt scrub away dead skin while the oil leaves your skin silky smooth.
2 c sugar
2 c epsom salts
1-1.5 c vegetable oil (olive oil and canola oil are kind of smelly)
1 T vitamin E oil
3-10 drops lavender or other essential oil
1-2 T finely chopped fresh rosemary (optional)
Cover a large table with newspaper and spread out all your ingredients and jars. Mix the sugar, salt, and oils for 1-2 minutes, until thoroughly combined. Test a small scoop on the back of your hand by gently rubbing for about 30 seconds, then rinse. If you’d like a more oily texture, add in a half cup more oil. Make as many batches as you have jars to fill. Punch a hole in a holiday card, write a sweet note and tie with a ribbon. Viola! Christmas cheer.
Making 18 presents cost about $42, including $3 for a 5lb bag of sugar, $5 for the epsom salts, $7 for vegetable oil, and $15 for the essential oil. We got the rosemary from the garden and already had the vitamin E oil, which you can buy at Trader Joe’s. A four pack of small glass jars from Ikea was $3 but you can also use mason jars or others found at thrift stores.
You can further reduce the price by using ingredients you already have, getting the items on sale, and finding cheaper jars. We had a lot of supplies left over so you could make even more if you want.
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Shoppers uneasy with prices on some items. “Electronics appear to be the early winner this Black Friday, with discounters doing well early and door-busters bringing in big crowds. At higher-end department stores, the crowds were thinner and consumers seemed to be more interested in buying less expensive items.” (Wall Street Journal)
A reporter says retailers will do well this holiday season, if a crammed Walmart is any indication. “They came by truck, by van and even by taxi. But they all came for the deals. Hordes of shoppers descended upon Wal-Mart, the nation’s largest retailer, on Friday in hopes of securing some of the early deals of the holiday shopping season.” (CNNMoney.com)
Shoppers turned out but weren’t buying like crazy as in years past. ” U.S. consumers kicked off the holiday shopping season on Friday, with a strong turnout for early-morning bargains, though many said they were being more selective about what they buy and paring back what they spend.” (Reuters)
Some stores see massive sales. “Cecilia Auth came to Toys R Us at 4 a.m. Friday with one item on her list: a Star Wars All Terrain Tactical Enforcer for her 7-year-old son. But when she got to the toy store on Pulaski Highway in Rosedale, she was so impressed by the deals she walked out with a shopping cart full of toys — presents for her son, daughter, two nieces and a neighbor.” (Baltimore Sun)
Affordable. Zany. Laugh-inducing. That’s how the presents at Taylor gifts strike me. The online gift shop has all kinds of unique gag gifts (singing toilet paper), uber practical gifts (magnetic tool armband), and thoughtful presents (pet watering top). Either way, you’ll be able to find something for someone on your list.
You can search for gifts by personality type, category, price, and more. The gift suggestion tab has a section for gifts under $10 and you can click on a tab that shows the most popular gifts. One cool present the gift finder recommended is a $12 mini-pinball machine that shoots out a gift drawer (where you can stash cash, a gift card, or tickets) when the recipient lands a ball in a specific hole. What a fun way to give a gift card!
The clearance section has gifts up to 90 percent off with dozens of presents priced at $.99-$3. Hello gift basket!
Even the regular prices for their unusual gifts are tres affordable. On the site I saw:
- A jumbo car band-aid for $7
- World’s smallest jigsaw puzzle for $10
- A mouse trap cheese board for $10
- A racing granny wind up toy for $13
- A leopard Snuggie for $15
I think you’ll find some interesting gifts that you’ve never heard of before on TaylorGifts.com.
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Yay! The last day of the Bargain Babe Gift Guide is here. I’m looking forward to getting back to my normal money-savings tips. A bit ironic that I’m closing the gift guide with gifts when you are NOT on a budget. Mostly this is for all of us to ohh and ahh over, then head to Target to budget shop.
A pint-sized computer known as a netbook is a great gift for any one who craves being connected. Prices range from $200-$600 for the top of the line. Not sure how to pick out the right netbook for you? Check out my netbook buying guide.
I’m an iPhone devotee and I make no bones about it. Some say the Android Google phone is gaining steam, but do you really want a phone that croaks “droid!” every time you turn it on? The best feature is that the iPhone is so intuitive there’s no need to read the manual. Plus, new apps make it possible to read books on it so no need to invest in a Kindle. $99-$499. Buy it!
J.Crew’s cashmwere sweaters are renown for their quality and comfort. Expect to pay upwards of $100 or more unless you get one on sale. Also check Nordstrom’s, Bloomingdale’s and Macy’s for sales. Buy it!
A set of fancy olive oil and fig-infused balsamic vinegar is a super versatile gift that works for relatives, distant friends or family, your boss, or even a neighbor. The two tall Italian glass bottles come tucked into a sturdy cardboard box with packaging that oozes luxury. Two 200ml bottles are $40 from Global Gardens in Santa Barbara. Buy it!
Lonely Planet’s 1000 Ultimate Experiences book is an annotated guide to amazing photos taken around the world. Perfect for world and armchair travelers. Here’s what the book says about the Khan al-khalili market in Egypt. “Go to the Street of the Tentmakers for something completely different: it’s a market within the market. It’s also Cairo’s last remaining medieval covered market, where tentmakers craft beautifully ornate tents.” Buy it!
Got a relative that just loves to talk about money? The Habitudes card game is great for anyone interested in money. Use the cards to spark discussions about your attutides and beliefs about money. If someone isn’t already big on saving, it’s not going to turn them around. There is also a teen version if you want a tool to talk to your kid about money. Amazon has it for $15. Buy it!
The USA book is another winner from Lonely Planet. Take a journey through America through photographs that capture our country’s beautiful landscapes and cultural oddities. Prepare to get sucked into reading about each state’s cuisine, people and legends. Amazon has it for $23.39 (orig. $40). Buy it!
Make customized stamps with your child’s artwork through ArtStamps.com. Just scan the artwork, save it as a jpeg on your desktop and the web site will talk you through the process. A book of 10 stamps is $15 ($1.50 per) or 20 stamps are $25 ($1.25 per). Buy it!
The super soft Pacific Pashmina from Target comes in purple, cream, black and grey. It’s a very adaptable gift for relatives you may not know very well. Just include a gift receipt and you’re good to go. You can’t beat the $20 price tag! Buy it!
See also: gifts of wine and booze and gifts for the chef.
Talk about economic home decorating. Flair4All has dozens of different styles of removable wall decals that let teens show their personality. Perfect for their bedroom or dorm. Each $20 set has a few sheets of multiple sticky decals, which don’t leave behind sticky goop and re-stick if you peel them off. Themes include flowers, spots, butterflies, music, shapes, destinations, and messages. There are even sets of decals for guys and toddlers. Buy it!
Worried about your kid drinking from plastic water bottles? Get ‘em a personalized metal water bottle that plays into a passion of theirs. At theBottleShop.com you can choose from 15 colors, 20 categories of images, plus add a name or phrase to the bottle. The bottles are $11-$25, images and names are $3 each. Think of the possibilities! Buy it!
One of the most underrated electronic gadgets right now is the flip camera. No idea why they call it that, but it sure is fun. This flip camera is so easy to use you don’t have to read the manual, and lets teens make quick videos on the go. Low quality, yes, but very entertaining. Prices range from $100-200 depending on whether you get a 2GB, 4GB or 8GB flash drive. Amazon has a nice 8GB flip camera for $160. Buy it!
Teenagers want to get OUT of the house. So get them concert tickets – but don’t pay full price. Find discounts up to 50 percent off at Goldstar, where you can also buy gift certificates so they can choose themselves. Movie tickets are another great gift for teens who would really rather not be seen with you. Buy discounted movie passes through Costco or check with your HR department at work.
Dig this. Necklaces made of recycled vinyl records. How cool is that? There are five choices for what the necklace spells out, including “me,” “American Dream,” and “Role Model,” and “NYC.” You can also get one customized with your name. At $34-$36 they are not cheap, but I’m willing to pay a bit more for a unique gift. Aren’t you? Buy it!
Got a teen that likes to think? The card game Set gets your neurons firing. Set can be played with 1-6 players. The person who finds the most matching patterns in the deck wins. Set is a great present for anybody interested in math or patterns and can easily be simplified for young kids. Meant for ages 6 and up. Amazon has it for $9.68 (orig. $15). Buy it!
Loaded Questions is another fun game for teens who want to prove how much they know about each other. Players move ahead by correctly guessing how other players would answer questions. Sample questions include “What sport should cease to exist?” “Aside from smoking what habit to you hate?” and “What part of your body probably smells right now?” Amazon has it for $21.21 (orig $30). Buy it!
If you want to go lower: Buy an iTunes gift card in your price range.
