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Woman are better at riding out stock market crashes, while men are more likely to sell during lows, says the Sunday’s New York Times. “There’s been a lot of academic research suggesting that men think they know what they’re doing, even when they really don’t know what they’re doing,” said John Ameriks, a Vanguard exec who co-authored the study. (Kind of like how men hate asking for directions…)
Men’s overconfidence led them to trade stocks nearly 50 percent more often than women. “This added trading drove up the men’s costs and lowered their returns,” the story said.
It is interesting that the story and the researchers interpret men’s propensity for selling in a volatile market as overconfidence and not emotional weakness. I bet many people – men and women – who sold stocks as the market fell last year were motivated by fear. Fear that their investments, their retirement, and their future would be dashed if they didn’t do something about it.
The emotional pressure to survive a falling stock market may have been felt greater by men, who carry a societal burden to be breadwinners. That could be a factor in why men mistakenly sold off stocks more often then women. If there’s one thing I’ve heard about being a good investor, it is that you can’t make financial decisions based on emotions and come out ahead.
Men’s overconfidence, however, also led them to take greater risks than women, which can mean bigger returns. Women feel safer with the slow and steady earnings from bonds, apparently.
Loading ...It’s unclear how significant these differences are, and the reasons behind it. Nature? Nurture? Or…? Researchers are studying how our emotions effect our finances and are looking at ties between testosterone and risk-taking. In the meantime, I’m holding onto what I’ve got.
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I’ve been feeling generous towards a low-income friend lately. Not that he needs any help, but I am able to give it. I’m not interested in giving this friend a loan, but I’m considering subsidizing various activities with him, like picking up the lunch tab or treating him to a movie.
The prospect of giving gifts to a friend outside of Christmas, birthdays, and special occasions makes me nervous. Is this even appropriate? Will I hurt his pride? I called etiquette expert Nancy Mitchell for tips. Here’s what she advised.
What are the rules when it comes to giving gifts to friends?
I think the number one rule is to know the friend and know how to proceed. Would the person be wiling to accept things or is the person extremely proud and you’ll have to use subterfuge?
Let’s start with the person who may be very proud and not be willing to take what they think is charity. You can call them up and say, I got a gift certificate to a restaurant or theater. I would love to have you come with me, are you available? They might not have to know you went out and bought the gift certificate yourself.
Or say, Someone gave me two tickets to the hockey game. Would you like to go? If you had a friend who had children, give child care once and a while. I’d love to babysit sometime. Can I babysit and give you an evening out? Or say ‘I’ve got too much of a certain product. Pass things on, share some of the wealth. Offer to share frequent flyer miles.
Is it ethical to give gifts like this to friends who, if they knew the whole story, would say no?
I think it is because you don’t have an ulterior motive. You are giving from your heart and you are showing great sensitivity to someone’s situation. It’s not going to hurt anyone, it’s going to help.
What are the no-nos of giving?
You would never let anyone in on the secret. It’s between you and whoever is the recipient. Because if the cat got out of the bag there could be some hard feelings.
What about if your friend is open to receiving gifts? (more…)
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My friends at AOL’s Lemondrop blog (I blog for AOL’s WalletPop) wrote a helpful article about how exactly to pay off high-interest credit card debt. I don’t carry a balance and I found this article fascinating. The story offers five approaches to paying off the debt, some of which might help you.
Her sitch: In June 2008, Tiffany owed $14,611.47. She’s managed to chip away at the balance by using gift money, tax refunds and watching her spending, but she still owes close to $8,000, and she’s not sure what else to do.
“I don’t have any real system,” she says. “I tried fun Excel spreadsheets and advice from friends, but nothing really panned out. In the end, I just kept throwing any money I could at it, from $50 to $200, as often as I could. But I’m hoping to move in the upcoming months, so I won’t be able to set much aside to pay off the debt. Help!”
How’d she rack it up? Tiffany lives in a college town and has had trouble committing to long leases, so she’s moved five times in as many years. “Every time I moved, I would put extraneous costs on the credit card, telling myself I’d pay it off right away,” she says. “But one new thing always leads to another when you move into a new place.” On her expense list: paint, shower curtains, rugs, cleaning supplies and lots of takeout food. “It always caught me off guard when it added up,” she says.
The glitch: Tiffany has plans to move to New York City in May, where she’ll look for another nonprofit job. Currently she works for a women’s transitional home and brings home about $1,750 a month after taxes. She expects to make $35,000 to $45,000 in a similar position in New York. “What I make now is barely anything, and in general the pay isn’t great for nonprofit work,” she says. “Having a salary that can just wipe the debt away is unlikely. What do I do?”
The expert’s take: First of all, the fact that Tiffany has shaved more than $6,000 from her balance in less than two years is fantastic. But her plan to move to the Big Apple with $8,000 still hanging over her head raises th e eyebrow of Boston financial planner Cheryl Costa. “I would suggest she look long and hard at whether she can afford the move to New York,” Costa says. “Does she have an appreciation for how much it will cost her to live there? If she makes this move, it may take forever to pay down her debt.”
Keep reading to see what five steps the expert recommends for Tiffany.
Reader Debra wins my review copy of Creative Unemployment: How To Transcend Job Loss
I would love to read this book. I have been looking for work since the end of April – it is very emotionally draining.
I hope this book helps you get through this difficult time, Debra. If you missed my review of the book, author Harlan Kidwell Jr. focuses on the emotional journey that follows getting laid off. One thing that comes up often – even when you have a job – is how to talk about money with friends who want to spend more than you do. Socializing can be a minefield when you are cutting back!
To reduce spending, go over your budget again or attend a totally free swap meet.
Have you ever been laid off? Then you know what a blow it can be financially and emotionally. On BargainBabe.com I mostly deal with surviving financially, so I welcomed Harlan Kidwell, Jr.’s book on the emotional fallout of job loss. Harlan’s self-published Creative Unemployment: How To Transcend Job Loss
With so many personal stories, Creative Unemployment is cathartic.
This book offers a positive look at the potentially damaging psychological aspects of underemployment. This book is not about finding a job. It is a book about finding yourself…When you find yourself, you will find employment – a vocation – a life purpose. The issues in this book can also be useful to people who are aware or alive and still employed who want to gain the benefits of increased self-awareness before the trauma of rejection and loss of income.
Each chapter of the 284-page book begins with a 1-3 sentence description of what you’ll get out of that chapter and ends with a 1-3 page review of the major points. Chapters 1-8 are about recognizing and accepting the emotional journey that follows unemployment. Chapters 9-15 are about moving forward and taking action.
In chapter 10, Harlan breaks down the emotional journey of unemployment into six practical steps you can take to move forward.
1. Become self-aware.
2. Decide what you want.
3. Write your goals down.
4. Imagine or visualize your achieved goal. (emphasis his)
5. Take action.
6. Reflect and select.
The book’s introduction lacks sources for the statistics cited, which makes me uncomfortable. However, the point of the book is to help one heal emotionally, not provide economic figures. The nut of this touchy-feely (and I don’t mean that in a bad way) book is that it is okay to to feel how you feel, you should believe in yourself, and definitely go for it!
Leave a comment on this post by the end of Thursday, March 4 to win my review copy of Creative Unemployment: How To Transcend Job Loss
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Know what the world’s oldest profession is? Well what about the world’s oldest business? That would be a bank, I believe. No condescension intended by the analogy. In fact, I like banks. I am a client of at least four of them. Banks have a way of sustaining an economy just as much as it can take one down.
What I dislike about some of these large financial institutions — aside from the fact that quite a number of them have siphoned my tax dollars, no thanks to government bailouts — is how they tend to resort to deception in trying to entice one to become a client. Take my recent experiences with two such banks whose names I’d rather not mention right now.
Extra Bank Offers That I Don’t Care For
1. The Upsell
From one bank, I received a replacement card in the mail recently. The instruction they gave me was for me to call a toll free number in order to activate my card. Pretty standard stuff. Well, I followed the instruction and after going through the entire rigmarole of entering my card’s last four digits to giving the names of my first dog’s offspring, I was informed that my card was now activated and ready for use.
Just as I was about to wish the phone representative to have a pleasant day, she tells me that I am entitled to an additional service which would give me fraud and identity theft protection, credit monitoring services and other security features. The use of the word “entitled” can be very deceptive. Does this mean it’s like a gift that I just need to accept? Or will it cost me something? Remember, this is a bank and nothing ever comes free. So the fact was…. there was going to be a monthly charge of $6.95 (not the true amount). I told her I was going to think about it and will give them a call when I was ready for this. But she was insistent. She told me that it would be better for me to avail of the service right away because should I later change my mind, I can cancel it within a certain period and get a refund of the fees paid.
Wait. Hold it right there! It’s obvious what the bank was trying to do. They are capitalizing on the fact that people like me might not read the account information that they send and that I would become too busy to call them to cancel so in the long run, the bank makes a fortune. Of course, $6.95 a month is hardly a fortune. But think of 5,000 busy credit card holders and that’s a lot of money. So just like with drugs, I just said NO!
2. Does “no maintenance fee” really mean there are no fees?
My other experience involved this online ad which I came across while paying my credit card bill. In some cases, to encourage you to open a high interest savings account online, a bank may offer you a cash bonus for the effort. I caught on to one such offer lately, especially when I noticed the big bold letters on the ad that said the words “No maintenance fee.” I decided to fill out a savings account application online. Just as I was about to hit the final key to submit my application, I decided to confirm the terms and conditions of being an account holder one more time.
Lo and behold! Upon a second review, that’s when I noticed that the account would carry a monthly service fee. In fact, because of this fee, my initial deposit would have been exhausted after just three months. To make a long story short, I didn’t like how this bank would dangle a carrot by promoting their “no maintenance fee” account, but in the end, would turn around and still charge me a monthly service fee. Sneaky! I had two choices at that point –- hit SUBMIT APPLICATION or hit CANCEL. And so did I hit cancel? Well, does a zebra have stripes?
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BargainBabe.com readers are above average – way above! A whopping 75 percent of readers pay off their balance every statement, according to a recent poll in which 161 readers voted. Wow! The national average is 59 percent.
Just a smidge – 22 percent – of BargainBabe.com readers carry a balance. That is half the national average of 41.37 percent of Americans who carry a credit card balance. Another 3 percent of readers chose the ambiguous “other” option, including Danielle, who said “I can’t get a credit card, because I don’t have a credit card.” Hmm, really?
These impressive stats got me thinking…are BargainBabe.com readers above average savers?
Vote first then I’ll tell you how you compare to the national average on the next page!
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Just got some interesting economic factoids from the website BillShrink.com. Are you part of the savings trend?
- 46% of credit card holders paid their bill in full each month in Feb. 2009
- 59% of credit card holders paid their bill in full each month in Feb. 2010
- The average American family had $2,000 in unexpected expenses last year
- Americans have reduced their debt by $101.2 billion in the past 14 months ($1,874 per household)
- We are currently saving at record rates, setting a 15-year high (Check out BillShrink’s super cool graphic about American’s personal savings and debt, which goes back to 1960).
- We still over pay for lots of stuff, including ATM fees, credit card late fees, and dealership auto maintenance (though I’m seeing coupons from dealers these days)
To get this data BillShrink surveyed 154,000 users on its site from February 2009-January 2010. The pay off rate has been steadily increasing each month, according to the responses below.
Yes, I pay off balance each month No, I don’t pay off balance each month
02-09 46.03% 53.97%
03-09 45.92% 54.08%
04-09 41.75% 58.25%
05-09 43.19% 56.81%
06-09 46.28% 53.72%
07-09 46.92% 53.08%
08-09 48.72% 51.28%
09-09 51.21% 48.79%
10-09 51.99% 48.01%
11-09 54.73% 45.27%
12-09 57.25% 42.75%
01-10 58.63% 41.37%
I’m curious how BargainBabe.com readers compare to the national average.
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I’m a finalist in the Plutus Awards in the Best Deals and Bargains Blog category. Please vote for me!
I’m up against stiff competition. The other finalists are Bargain Briana, Deal Seeking Mom, Keeping the Kingdom First, and Wise Bread. Wow!
The contest is run by a personal finance blogger named Flexo. To vote you’ll need to share your name and email, then scroll down until you find the Best Deals and Bargain category (it’s pretty far down). Then vote for your favorite blog!
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Here’s another great tip from my interview with author Laura Rowley: BrightScope.com. The site ranks 401k plans for some of the country’s biggest employers, from 0 to 100. Is your company listed?
- Home Depot
- Apple
- Hewlett Packard
- Lowe’s
- Dell
- General Electric
- Microsoft
- IBM
- McDonald’s
- Walt Disney
- Exxon Mobile
- Walmart
- Boeing
- Qualcomm
- Nike
- Proctor and Gamble
- Sears
- Nike
- Coca-Cola
The ratings consider 200 factors, including total plan cost, company generosity, and investment menu quality. For each of these factors and others (like participation rate, salary deferrals, and average investment) you can see how each plan ranks compared to others. The Google 401k plan, for instance, is in the top 15 percent of plans with the lowest fees, but is in the 35th to 64th percentile for average account balances. Those young computer whizzes are banking on their stock options, apparently. You can also get a report on the fees associated with your 401k when you register for the site.
BrightScope’s goal is “to increase the retirement security of America’s workforce by bringing transparency and efficiency to the 401k plan market,” the site says. BrightScope claims to be “the only 401k analytics firm that is truly independent and does not accept compensation in the form of revenue sharing from mutual fund companies or plan providers.”
So how does the site make money? BrightScope is “aligned with plan sponsors,” which is all the website says about its bottom line. That leaves me slightly suspicions. It seems the site means well, but if the folks behind BrightScope are not willing to explain how it makes money then they are hiding something. You can read more about the company on their About page.
As for the data sources, the site culls 401k info from the Department of Labor, the Securities and Exchange Commission, the U.S. Census Bureau, the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, and the Bureau of Labor Statistics. Some mutual fund and investment data come from mutual fund prospectuses, and a few companies provided information.I hope this site is a resource for you!
I talked to Laura Rowley, author of “Money and Happiness”
1. “Female” versions of products are often more expensive. Consumer Reports did a study and found that products with his/her versions, like shaving cream, deodorant, and razors, perform the same but cost $1-2 more for the version targeting women, Laura said. All that pink packaging is cute, but not worth an extra dime.
2. A coupon toolbar saves time. Research shows more people do at least two online searches before they buy. First to find the product and then to find coupons for the product. Laura likes the coupon toolbar at Dealio.com, which automatically finds coupons when you search for products on Yahoo, Bing, or Google. Having a toolbar helps you get more value out of a single search.
3. Certain debit cards earn cash rebates. Laura says she earns 3-4 percent on the account tied to her debit card. To earn this high interest rate, you generally have to do five things. One, swipe your debit card 10-12 times a month. Two, set up direct deposit into the account. Three, use the bank’s online banking program. Four, get statements by email not snail mail. Five, bank locally. You aren’t going to see any of the major banks offering this perk.
But do the benefits of using a high-interest debit card surpass credit card perks? “Totally,” Laura said. “It’s way better to get 3-4 percent interest than credit rewards.” What about not building your credit history by using a debit card? “The people with the best credit scores only use 8-10 percent of their credit capacity every month. By using a debit card 10 times, you are getting the best of both worlds.”
Still interested? Go to CheckingFinder.com, plug in your zip code to find a local bank, and compare offers. The banks can afford to give you this interest rate because they are making money on the interchange fee. Every time you swipe your debit card, retailers pay about 2 percent of the sale, Laura said.
This deal works best for people who are comfortable banking online. Laura recommends using a high-interest debit card for small purchases between $10-$50 and a credit card for bigger charges. She makes the most of this deal by transferring 3-4 months of savings into her high-interest account. But only do this if you can stop yourself from spending your savings!
I just checked for my zip code and one bank is offering 4.09 percent interest on balances up to $25,000. That’s a far cry from the 1.25 percent interest rate ING Direct is offering for a 18-month CD.
Politicians cracked down on credit card companies to help out consumers during the recession, but the new credit card law that goes into effect today has pitfalls.
“During the past nine months, credit card companies jacked up interest rates, created new fees and cut credit lines,” an AP story says. “They also closed down millions of accounts. So a law hailed as the most sweeping piece of consumer legislation in decades has helped make it more difficult for millions of Americans to get credit, and made that credit more expensive.”
Here an outline of the changes in store.
Pros:
1. Credit Card companies have to give you 45 days notice if your interest rate is increasing.
2. Statements will now show how long it will take to pay off the balance if you make only the minimum payment. Statements will also show how much you need to pay each month to pay off the loan in three years.
3. Statements must be sent 21 days before the due date, which cannot shift willy nilly anymore.
4. You have to expressly agree to be able to charge over your limit, which triggers over-the-limit fees. Even if you do agree, there are limits to how much your bank can charge you.
5. Folks under age 21 cannot get a credit card unless they have a co-signor or can show they can pay off the charges (independently of their parents’ income). Banks can’t hang out on college campuses offering perks for applying for a credit card.
6. Americans will save $10 billion or more a year from the changes, according to the Pew Charitable Trust.
Cons:
1. There’s still no ceiling on interest rates.
2. Fees now are capped at 25 percent of the total credit line during the first year – but in my book that is still way too high!!!
3. Annual fees are coming back. In late 2009, forty-five percent of new credit cards had annual fees compared to 25 percent in the same time period the year before.
4. Some retailer credit cards will charge $1 for paper statements, like Victoria’s Secret and Ann Taylor. Look out for inactivity fees, as well.
5. Balance transfer fees will go up on some cards.
6. Reduced credit lines on existing accounts. My credit limit decreased, which is not surprising consider 40 percent of banks reduced credit limits on existing accounts.
7. Higher initial interest rates. The average rate for new cards was 13.6 percent last week compared to 10.7 percent a year ago, according to Bankrate.com.
8. Fewer cards. There are 15 percent fewer Visa, Mastercard, and American Express cards in circulation in 2009 compared to 2008. Maybe this is a good thing, though it means credit cards with perks – like grocery and gasoline rebates – are declining.
I hope these changes have a net positive effect, but the bottom line is that if you use credit cards you have to be very careful about charging more than you can pay off, paying on time, and avoiding fees. When in debt, you are at the lender’s whim.
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A friend of mine lives in a part of the country where expenses are so high that nearly every couple works two high-paying jobs and still struggles financially. So how do they get buy?
The answer shocked me – they accept money from their parents.
“It’s not a matter of whether you do or do not accept money from your parents,” she said. “But how much.”
My friend was talking about more than simple birthday or Christmas gifts. For her and her friends, parental cash flow affects the household’s bottom line.
Some parents send a check every month. Others give generously at holidays, provide extensive child care, or pay for entire family vacations. Still other parents pay for school tutition or establish college funds for grand kids.
It can be difficult for grown adults to accept money from parents. Many people turn it down because of pride. Others are held up by particulars. Does there needs to be a written contract? How do you ask for more, or less? Most importantly, is it possible to have “no strings attached”?
A contract is not usually necessary, but depends on what everyone involved is comfortable with. Asking for more or less comes down to explaining the request and being able to accept the answer – and additional strings. Because after the agreement is made, what lingers is the strings.
Financial gifts nearly always come with strings attached. And the bigger the gift, the more strings there are.
For instance, my Mom used to send me $100-$300 every month in college. I had a family credit card for groceries, but everything else was on me – clothes, movies, subway tokens – and the paycheck from my part-time job didn’t go far. There were few strings attached to this money, partly because it was a relatively low dollar amount. (Though it did encourage me to call home every week.)
Years later when Hubby and I prepared to buy a condo, my Mom advanced me a large portion of my inheritance so that I could contribute to the downpayment. We wrote up a simple agreement about the terms and both kept a signed copy. The rules were very clear, which made it easier on both of us. The money came with one very strong string – it was not to be used for anything else.
Some years after the condo advance, my Mom offered another fiscal carrot. If I moved back to California (I remained in New York City after graduating) she would give me her car, worth about $10,000. The money came with a very clear string – a California address – and it was one I was happy to accept.
There is nothing wrong with taking money from parents as long as two conditions exisit. The support has got to benefit both sides (don’t take money from parents who can’t afford it). And both sides must agree to and accept the strings attached.
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Here’s a quick recap to let you know that the website where you can file your federal taxes for free is now accepting 2009 returns.Here’s a quick recap to let you know that the website where you can file your federal taxes for free is now accepting 2009 returns.
The freebie file exists thanks to a partnership between the IRS and the Free File Alliance LLC, a group of private sector tax software companies. Here’s how it worked for 2008 taxes filed last April. I expect the free filing options to be very similar for 2009 taxes.
Option No. 1. You can file your federal returns for free using the traditional Free File, which offers step-by-step help, if your adjusted gross income is $56,000 or less (this number could vary slightly for 2009). The software puts your answers directly into the forms and does the math for you. You can get a refund as quick as 10 days if you opt for direct deposit. This service is available in Spanish.
Option No. 2. You can fill in your own tax forms without the help of software using the Free Fillable Forms. This hands-off approach lets you prepare and e-file your 1040, 1040 A and 1040EZ federal returns. There are no income limits, as with Option No. 1. State forms are not included.
Both of these options make it possible to file your federal tax forms for free. State forms are not included, however. Does anybody know a way to file state taxes for free?
Thanks, Tina!
