I took advantage of JetBlue’s $69 one-way flights from Long Beach to New York City – what I call a smart splurge – and am having a ball visiting my sister in the Big Apple. Living in Los Angeles has softened me up, while she has become the consummate New Yorker.
She stays out all hours of the night, can calculate taxi fare between any two points, and has maximized the potential of her tiny apartment by stashing her microwave and toaster under the sink. They still work!
I am no longer a New Yorker, but being in the city I lived in for ten years has reminded me of all the things I miss:
- Fearless subway musicians who provide free entertainment while you wait, including a tap dancer at 42nd Street who set up a mini-stage and then danced to the beat of three drummers across the platform
- People so interesting looking that I can make up whole stories about their lives, like the philosopher with orange-brown hair who would eventually break the heart of the woman cuddling him on the subway even though he did not know it
- The rumbling of the trains passing below, a comforting reminder that you can go anywhere, do anything, at anytime
But I stayed long enough to remember why I left:
- Where did all these people come from? Get out of my way!
- Waiting so long for the NR that its nickname, the Never Rarely, comes true
- Smells that are not appropriate to write about, even on a blog
When I get back to Los Angeles I’m going to grab my yoga mat and let go all of New York – the good and the bad – with a few down dogs. I’m ready to be a softie again.












March 30th, 2009 at 10:58 am
Go to the beach to relax….that should do it.
March 31st, 2009 at 9:09 pm
Is your sister enjoying the big city? Did you get to the theater or a museum? Was there some time that was great? It sounds exciting to be in the big city but I never lived there–only visited.
April 1st, 2009 at 10:44 am
My sister loves living in NYC. I had a lot of fun visiting her and checking out my old haunts. Not too much touristy stuff this time.
April 1st, 2009 at 10:56 am
Great stories–reminds me of what it’s like to be in NYC!
April 6th, 2009 at 10:46 pm
This sister sounds single.?? Did your visit remind you of SATC?